I’ve let myself be in places where I didn’t want to be. I used to think that mean people did mean things to me but really. I allowed it. Out of fear that there is nothing better or that I should solve my unhappiness with acceptance I let myself hurt. I clung the pain in … Continue reading Picking and Allowing.
Self-love. Urgh. Another cringey article about saying mantras in front of the mirror is here guys. Or maybe not quite What is self-love anyway? Is this stuff real and doable if you're not all sunshine and butterflies, naturally gifted Instagram sweetheart? Sometimes we get this impression that self-love should be this kind of a crush. … Continue reading On Self-Love
Oops I did it again. Spoke excitedly and then left silence behind. My dreams of what this site could be and mean were so big that naturally... there is still nothing in here. No words were good enough and I could already see mistakes and problems arising from projects only existing in my head. All … Continue reading The Magic of a Second Beginning
Take an idea of who you are. Paint a full picture - what are your strengths and weaknesses? What makes you beautiful and what are your flaws? What can you do really well? What are you absolutely not good at? Now, ditch that. Get rid of it all. I do get it, it's nice to … Continue reading The Dangers of Defining Who You Are